"They would not listen; they're not listening still. Perhaps they never will." - Don Mclean, Vincent, 1971
Have you ever questioned the effectiveness of annual awareness campaigns for marginalized communities and more-than-human entities? Bell Let's Talk Day, Black History Month, Pink Shirt Day, International Women's Day, World Autism Awareness Day, Earth Day, Pride Month, etc. Each of these professes their dedication to celebrating the (bio)diversity and achievements of their respective communities and entities, while also setting out to educate society on the systemic abuses their members and species have long endured, encouraging us all to, "do better." I once applauded such movements but have begun to wonder if they're truly capable of sparking positive change for the groups and lifeforms in question or are simply used as photo ops for politicians, "experts," celebrities, and influencers.
For example, once a year, people of all ages wear T-shirts and wave flags emblazoned with the symbols of these movements, discuss such topics in classrooms, march in parades, and gather in plazas to publicly show their support. Like clockwork, all the puppets, dummies, and other plastic people descend from the toy store to make their presence at these festivities known for the cameras. After the special day has concluded, everything goes back to the way it's always been, with little to no inroads made in the day-to-day lives of the marginalized. Speaking as a member of a few of these disadvantaged communities, I can confirm that not much improves as a result of such awareness campaigns.
Just to clarify, I'm not suggesting that all campaign organizers, support workers, activists, advocates, or attendees of such events are there for shallow ulterior motives, nor that society never learns anything at all from these movements. Likewise, I applaud community members who participate in their own awareness campaigns. I'm also fully aware and equally touched that some people out there genuinely care for our respective communities, tirelessly fundraising on our behalf, donating much of their own time and money to organize social gatherings and fun activities for our members, etc. These are all true unsung heroes; the real activists who never pose for the cameras nor livestream themselves at these events in colourful, "awareness," shirts. I salute these awesome individuals for doing such a great job every day to help the disadvantaged with no desires for votes or praise. You all rock!
Having said that, let's briefly go over a few of these, "International Awareness Days," shall we...
That's just the Coles Notes version of each, but you get the gist...
I've always felt that we, the marginalized, should be the ones to lead the charge for change, not the narcissistic politicians devoid of honesty, brains, heart, or guts. Ditto with the so-called, "experts in the fields," who think they know us better than we know ourselves. Look, unless you've lived through our experiences, don't pretend to know more than us, as we have genuine first-person perspectives on such issues. I built my website to raise autism awareness year-round, not just on World Autism Awareness Day or Autistic Pride Day. I genuinely want to educate others on what it feels like to face the challenges, discrimination, bullying, and infantilization many within our community endure daily.
I willingly chose to step out of the shadows of anonymity to educate others and share my autistic perspectives on life, putting my name and face out there to demonstrate that autism isn't a "one-size-fits-all" affair; that anyone you pass on the street, regardless of age, gender, ethnicity, orientation, race, etc., could be on the spectrum...that's the key word; spectrum, because autism has varying degrees of complexity, thus ensuring no two autistic individuals are the same and therefore should never be labelled as such or forced into the same box. We all have our unique strengths and challenges to overcome, and what may be easy for some of us may be daunting for others.
Honestly, I've also begun to question whether my own online efforts to educate others are any more likely to spark positive change for our community than these annual global campaigns I've grown skeptical of. As mentioned, it feels as though such events are mostly treated as self-indulgent photo ops by politicians, "experts," celebrities, and influencers. For example, where I live, the waiting lists for counselling remain years-long, the social assistance provided to the autistic community hasn't been raised in decades, and requests for accommodations from civic-run programs are often denied. Other provinces and countries have it much worse, I'm sure.
Another issue pushing my buttons and testing my faith in humanity is bearing witness to how ignorant and desensitized people of all ages have proven themselves, with the ease in which they continue to casually use the ablest slur, "retard", in their everyday lingo. This slur has been aimed at anyone and everyone with learning disabilities or special needs for decades, and its only intentions are to express hatred or inflict pain on our communities. If you feel there's, "nothing wrong," with the normalization of this slur, look at yourself in the mirror, blurt out a slur directed at anybody who looks like you, and imagine how it feels to hear people using it all the time. Then, maybe, just maybe, you'll understand what's wrong with it.
Despite my current disillusionment, I take solace in the knowledge that I'm just one of many other webmasters and webmistresses out there using our personal websites to advocate on behalf of our respective communities. We're all in it for the long haul, not just one day or month of the year. For some, awareness campaigns are nothing more than annual photo ops to boost their public image. For those of us within marginalized communities, it's just 1 of the other 365 days of our lives. At least I know our humble efforts are genuine and not excuses for photo ops. Thanks for reading.
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Posted in "Autistic Perspectives" on Monday, April 13, 2026.